Dating rules playing hard to get
though there is no body of evidence to support this.
Another criticism is that because The Rules advise rarely returning phone calls and other such hard-to-get dating methods, some men may have trouble telling the difference between a woman who is genuinely not interested (or not interested anymore) and one who is genuinely interested, thus leading to misunderstandings and stalkers; not only for women using The Rules, but any man who believes all women are playing similar games even when they are not.
And don’t we all know how much men love a good challenge.
When a man wants to woo a girl and sweep her off her feet, he’s doing this before any other fanciable man could sweep this girl away, amidst stiff competition.
No woman is eager to advertise that she may have read a dating and relationship self-help book or two. I noticed that all the books I've read give the same old silly dating tips that encourage women to play games. After all, if you meet your soul mate, you shouldn't have to play any games to win him over, right?
During my many years of bad dates and finding myself too often in the wrong relationship, I've turned to those books in times of desperation.
Just keep in mind that you are "playing" with somebody's emotions, so be gentle if you break their heart.
Playing hard to get Guys may get frustrated when they have to put up with girls who play hard to get, but they too, would accept that they like it when girls play hard to get. [Read: What men like in women more than anything else] How to play hard to get with a guy We’ve seen it happen several times, in movies, amongst friends and in several other places full of frenzied dating activities.Along with the happy feeling of wooing this woman, a man also gets an ego boost.It was him that she chose after all that playing hard to get, and not anyone else, so what does this make him in her eyes, an alpha male of sorts.Feminist values, they point out, do not preclude reacting with temperance and emotional independence to an initial attraction (on the part of a woman).They also cite that discipline and consideration inform the actions which create egalitarian relationships. In 2001 the follow-up book The Rules for Marriage: Time-Tested Secrets for Making Your Marriage Work was released in the midst of Fein's legal separation from her husband to whom she had been married for sixteen years.